Groomsmen Duties 101: What the Guys Are Really Responsible For
- amorren8
- 15 minutes ago
- 2 min read
You’ve picked your crew—the brothers, buddies, and lifelong friends who’ve
had your back since day one. Now they’re standing by your side as you take
the plunge into married life. But being in a wedding party isn’t just about
tuxes and toasts. So... what exactly are the Best Man and Groomsmen
supposed to do?
Whether you're tying the knot at Scioto Reserve Weddings or just figuring
out how to keep the guys organized, here’s your go-to guide for groomsmen
responsibilities—and how to assign them without it turning into a group text
mess.
Traditional Groomsmen Responsibilities
Best Man
He’s not just the guy with the ring. The Best Man typically:
Plans (or co-plans) the bachelor party
Helps coordinate tux rentals or suit fittings
Gives a toast at the reception
Keeps the groom calm, on time, and hydrated (or caffeinated… or both)
Holds the rings (unless you’ve got a ring bearer)
Signs the marriage license as a witness
Groomsmen
These guys keep the energy up and the groom grounded. They usually:
Pay for and pick up their suit/tux on time
Show up for the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
Help with bachelor party logistics (and costs)
Assist guests as needed on the wedding day
Make sure the groom eats, breathes, and maybe doesn’t lose his vows
How to Assign Responsibilities (Without Chaos)
Let’s face it—this isn’t exactly a project management dream team. But with a
little planning, it can be smooth sailing:
1. Play to Strengths
Got a guy who’s ultra-organized? Put him in charge of transportation or
coordinating timelines. Know a creative type? Let him help with bachelor
party themes or playlist planning.
2. Keep it Simple (and Group Chat Friendly)
Use a shared group chat (or something like Google Sheets or GroupMe) with
key dates, duties, and who’s handling what. Clarity keeps it from turning into
a wedding week scramble.
3. Communicate Early
Make expectations clear from the start. Let the guys know when you need
their help—and when they’re free to just enjoy the ride (and the open bar).
4. Keep It Fun
Sure, there’s some structure involved—but this is a celebration. Be flexible, be
appreciative, and don’t be afraid to let some personalities shine through.
Let Scioto Reserve Handle the Hard Part
When you get married at Scioto Reserve Weddings, we make sure the
behind-the-scenes stuff is covered—so you and your crew can focus on what
matters: showing up, having a blast, and maybe pulling off a killer dance floor
moment.
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